01/16/2019
Mark 1:29-39 On leaving the
synagogue Jesus entered the house of Simon and Andrew with James and John.
Simon's mother-in-law lay sick with a fever. They immediately told him about
her. He approached, grasped her hand, and helped her up. Then the fever left
her and she waited on them. Rising very early before dawn, he left and went off
to a deserted place, where he prayed. Simon and those who were with him pursued
him and on finding him said, "Everyone is looking for you." He told
them, "Let us go on to the nearby villages that I may preach there also.
For this purpose have I come." So he went into their synagogues, preaching
and driving out demons throughout the whole of Galilee.
Today I want to touch on a topic
that is super sensitive, namely, suicide. Some of you may have family or
friends who have tragically committed suicide so the problem is not only
painful but also very personal. Everything that follows, therefore, please know
I say with great respect and zero intention to offend anyone.
On June 7, 2018 The Washington Post
newspaper ran a story on the acute rise of suicide in America. It quoted a few
alarming statistics, saying: “Increasingly, suicide is being viewed not only as
a mental health problem but also a public one. Nearly 45,000 suicides occurred
in the United States in 2016 – more than twice the homicides” (people prefer to
kill themselves than kill others) “– making it the 10th leading cause of
death.” The article continued: “Among people ages 15-36 suicide is the
second-leading cause of death.” You may remember when Kate Spade, the famous
fashion designer, took her own life in New York City, and she had suffered from
depression.
But what disappointed me about the
article was what it pointed to as the root of the problem. It mentioned four
factors that contribute to suicides: financial woes, relationships crises,
alcohol and drug addiction, and mental health disorders. However, I think the
article missed the deeper dilemma of which these four factors are but the
symptoms, namely, a profound lack of peace. And peace does not come from more
money, or a loving marriage, or a good martini (good as those things are), but
rather from a sense of purpose. Purpose itself comes from knowing why I am
walking around in this world. And a true and transcendent purpose comes from prayer.
We ask God the simple but sublime question: “Why did you make me?” I am afraid
that our country will only continue to see a rise in suicides as we see a
similar rise in atheism. Why? When we do not pray, we will find little purpose,
and we will finally feel no peace.
In the gospel we see Jesus model
this three step peace plan. We read: “Rising very early before dawn, he left
and went off to a deserted place, where he prayed.” Maybe Jesus got up at 4:30
in the morning like I do but he probably didn’t have a Keurig. When Simon Peter
informs him that everyone is looking for him, Jesus calmly replies: “Let us go
to the nearby villages that I may preach there also. For this purpose have I
come.” Did you catch the three steps of Jesus’ peace plan? First, he spent
serious time in prayer; second, Jesus discovered his Father’s will, what God
made him for (his human nature); and third, he enjoyed profound peace. Notice
that Jesus did not have money or a marriage or even a martini. But he did pray
and found his purpose and therefore felt deep peace.
My friends, we may not personally
ever feel like committing suicide, but we all experience crisis points which
can feel very overwhelming. There are three acute crises we all have to endure
through life. First as teenagers trying to be independent; second in our
forties and the so-called mid-life crisis, and then after retirement, when the
wife want the husband out of her house. At these moments we feel disoriented
and a profound lack of peace. We may mistakenly think, like The Washington Post
article suggested, that the root of our problems is money or marriage or
martinis or mental health. But I would disagree and so would Jesus. Rather,
implement our Lord’s peace plan. First, spend time in serious prayer; second,
ask God why he made you and discover a transcendent purpose, and third, you
will feel an enduring sense of peace.
Peace is not the absence of war,
not even the absence of interior conflicts and crises. Rather, peace is the
result of walking in this world with a transcendent purpose, which you can only
figure out praying to the One who made you. And that peace plan is probably the
best way to reduce the number of suicides as well.
Praised be Jesus Christ!
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