Trying to look, listen, and learn from others
10/09/2024
LK 10:38-42 Jesus entered a
village where a woman whose name was Martha welcomed him. She had a sister
named Mary who sat beside the Lord at his feet listening to him speak. Martha,
burdened with much serving, came to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that
my sister has left me by myself to do the serving? Tell her to help me.” The Lord said to her in reply, “Martha,
Martha, you are anxious and worried about many things. There is need of only
one thing. Mary has chosen the better part and it will not be taken from her.”
One of my favorite anecdotes about
St. Thomas Aquinas was while he was studying to become a Dominican friar. He
was rather large in stature and rarely spoke, so his Dominican brothers gave
him the nickname, “the Dumb Ox.” One day, they decided to pull a prank on
Thomas. Three brothers stood by the monastery window looking outside with eyes
wide open and pointing in amazement. When one saw Thomas walking down the hall,
he shouted: “Thomas come quickly! Look! Cows are flying!”
Thomas lumbered to the window as
quickly as he could to look at this unusual sight, but alas, he saw nothing
strange. The three brothers laughed loudly and guffawed at Thomas’ gullibility.
Then the Dumb Ox turned back from the window and said, “I would rather believe
that cows can fly than that brothers would lie.”
A few days later all the Dominican
students were in class, and their teacher was St. Albert the Great. He was
aware of the nickname and jokes the student played on Thomas. He said to the
class of future mendicants: “You may call Thomas the Dumb Ox. But I tell you
that one day this ox will bellow so loudly that he will be heard all over the
world.” Indeed, we still study the writings of St. Thomas Aquinas in the
seminary today, 800 years after his death.
I mention this anecdote about
Aquinas because even though he had a lot to say, he was first of all silent.
That is, his first instinct was to be quiet, to listen, to look, to learn, to
perceive, to penetrate, to understand, long before he opened his mouth to
speak.
There is an ancient Latin maxim
that teaches: “nemo dat quod non
habet,” meaning “you cannot give
what you do not have.” Thomas Aquinas gave the world great treasures of wisdom,
but first he adopted a posture of quiet contemplation and receptivity. First
silence, second speak.
Both readings today touch on the
topic of quiet contemplation. In Galatians 1, St. Paul recounts what he did
shortly after his dramatic encounter with the Risen Christ on the road to
Damascus. The Apostle to the Gentiles writes: “I did not immediately consult
flesh and blood…rather, I went into Arabia and then returned to Damascus.” St.
Paul first traveled to the site of Mt. Sinai where Moses spoke to God so that
St. Paul could receive his marching orders directly from God, too.
And we are all familiar with the
gospel, where Mary strikes a pose of quiet contemplation while her sister
Martha is over-busy with housework. In other words, the great saints always had
the attitude of the Dumb Ox and desired first to listen, to look, and to learn.
Why? Because “nemo dat quod non habet,” you cannot give what you do not have.
Let me make a brief application of
this attitude of quiet contemplation to our toxic political environment today.
What makes it so difficult for me to listen to the rhetoric from both
Republicans and Democrats is that everyone is talking and no one is listening,
or looking, or trying to learn from each other. Each side is behaving like the
immature brothers of St. Thomas, trying to make fun of the other party and make
them look foolish.
Both sides are guilty of doing
whatever it takes to get into office and maintaining that power. And we, you
and I, are complicit in encouraging this rhetoric to the extent that we are
only interested in promoting our own agenda. Very little civility or sanity is
left in our modern political discourse.
My recommendation, therefore, would
be to take a page out of the book of Dumb Ox, that is, instead of shouting or
more campaigning, take time to stop, to look, and to listen. Try to hear what
both sides are saying and sift the wheat from the chaff, and then blow away the
chaff.
I believe both parties promote
issues that have value and protect the common good, especially in serving the
most vulnerable in our society, the unborn baby and the undocumented immigrant.
But the way things currently stand, I am afraid no one would vote for him if
Aquinas ran for president. They would just call him, “the Dumb Ox.”
Praised be Jesus
Christ!
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