Learning to love like Jesus in the Bible
01/23/2022
Lk 4:14-21 Jesus returned to
Galilee in the power of the Spirit, and news of him spread throughout the whole
region. He taught in their synagogues and was praised by all. He came to
Nazareth, where he had grown up, and went according to his custom into the
synagogue on the sabbath day. He stood up to read and was handed a scroll of
the prophet Isaiah. He unrolled the scroll and found the passage where it was
written: The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to bring
glad tidings to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim liberty to captives and
recovery of sight to the blind, to let the oppressed go free, and to proclaim a
year acceptable to the Lord. Rolling up the scroll, he handed it back to the
attendant and sat down, and the eyes of all in the synagogue looked intently at
him. He said to them, “Today this Scripture passage is fulfilled in your
hearing.”
Last week I did something I have
never done before: I was part of an engagement (don’t worry, not mine). Last
Thursday Will Smith, a Baptist boy from Fort Smith, proposed to Jordan Dart, a
Catholic girl from I.C. here in Fort Smith. However, the difficulty was they
were both in California while both their families were in Fort Smith. So, after
the engagement that afternoon, they did a zoom call that evening and Will asked
me as Jordan’s pastor to participate in the zoom call. My only question to
Jordan during the call was: “Well, what did you say when Will asked you to
marry him?” Jordan smiled and replied, “I said, ‘Oh, I’ll think about it.’”
Earlier that morning Will had
called me to share the plans for his proposal and even to ask my advice about
how he could be a good husband. Imagine that: a Baptist boy calling a Catholic
priest – and a celibate one to boot – for advice on spousal love! I said,
“Well, there’s no better advice for Christian couples than what St. Paul said
in Ep 5:25, ‘Husbands love your wives, even as Christ loved the church, and
handed himself over for her’.” I went on: “And if you want to see a perfect
example of Christ-like love, just look at the Cross.”
In other words, a husband must be
willing to die for his wife, even if his wife is the one trying to kill him.
That is, when you don’t know where to look for advice on love, look to the
Bible, and that is what I did. Why? Well, because the Bible tells the story of
God’s love, which is the highest form that human love can ever reach. And that
is the kind of love that Will and Jordan are aiming for in their marriage. The
Bible is a love story: God’s love story and hopefully our love story.
In the gospel of Luke, Jesus
returns to Nazareth, his hometown. He goes to the synagogue on the Sabbath
(that is Saturday) and reads from Isaiah the prophet. But more importantly,
after the reading, Jesus declares: “Today this Scripture passage is fulfilled
in your hearing.” Now, that was not only a surprising thing for Jesus to say,
but also a highly scandalous thing for the Jews to hear. Why? Well, Jesus was
asserting that the age-old prophesy of Isaiah 61 was being fulfilled in him. In
a word, Jesus was claiming to be the Christ, the Anointed One, the Messiah.
Indeed, it was so scandalous to the
people that, if you read a little further to verses 28-29 of Luke 4, the people
want to throw him over the brow of the hill upon which Nazareth was built. Even
though the Bible is God’s love story, and Jesus is God’s love on two legs, we
often find it hard to accept such unconditional love and imitate it. And that
is why Christ’s love was exactly like St. Paul described it: “Christ loved the
church, and handed himself over for her.” And his Bride tried to kill him!
Where the citizens of Nazareth failed, the citizens of Jerusalem three years
later would succeed in putting the Lord of love to death on a Cross. The Bible
– like we read in Isaiah 61 and Luke 4 – is a love story: God’s love story and
hopefully our love story. But it is not always an easy or fun story.
Folks, for our meager and mortal
human love to reach the lofty heights of God’s heavenly love is not only hard,
it is impossible without God’s grace. I saw this meme lately that illustrates
the challenge of living up to God’s love. A grandfather was walking through his
yard when he heard his granddaughter repeating the alphabet in a tone of voice
that sounded like a prayer. He asked her what she was doing. The little girl
explained: ‘I’m praying, but I can’t think of exactly the right words, so I’m
just saying all the letters of the alphabet, and God will put them together for
me, because he knows what I am thinking.”
Isn’t that a perfect picture of our
prayer-life, indeed, of our whole life? We don’t know exactly how to pray ,and
we don’t know exactly how to live, and we certainly are clueless about exactly
how to love. About the best we can do is to put the letters of our love-life
out there, and let God arrange them according to his plans and purposes. In
other words, if you are at the beginning of your love-life, like Will and
Jordan, or in the thick of things, juggling kids and jobs and basketball games,
or perhaps standing in the rubble of a ruined marriage that has ended in
divorce, or maybe celebrating your 50th wedding anniversary, the plain truth is
that none of us have loved perfectly or purely. That is, we don’t know how to
arrange the letters of our love-lives to match Jesus’ love for his Church as
described in Ep 5:25. So, maybe like that smart little girl we can just put the
letters out there and let God arrange them. We can ask for his mercy on our
mistakes and maybe show that mercy to others whose mistakes have hurt us.
This weekend is called “Sunday of
the Word of God,” and the Church invites us to devote a little extra time and
attention to the Sacred Scriptures. That is why we enthroned the Book of the
Gospels between two burning candles after we proclaimed it. One way to do that
is to see how the Bible is a love story: both God’s love story and the story of
our love for him. And don’t worry if you cannot understand how God has arranged
all the letters of the Bible, God knows how to arrange them just right to help
us love more like Him. So, that husbands and wives will love each other, “even
as Christ loved the church, and handed himself over for her.” Even if the wife
is the one trying to kill the husband.
Praised be Jesus
Christ!
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