Choosing to be peace-makers instead of trouble-makers
Acts of the Apostles 15:1-6
Some who had come down from
Judea were instructing the brothers, "Unless you are circumcised according
to the Mosaic practice, you cannot be saved." Because there arose no
little dissension and debate by Paul and Barnabas with them, it was decided
that Paul, Barnabas, and some of the others should go up to Jerusalem to the
Apostles and presbyters about this question.
I believe there are two kinds of people in the world. Some
people tend to be trouble-makers, while others are rather peace-makers. The
first kind love to stir the pot and create conflict and controversy. Some
people do this professionally, as we saw during the presidential campaign, with
so-called “paid agitators,” who disrupted townhall meetings and campaign rallies.
I could see this in my siblings and me when we were young. My parents often
lamented, “Why is it that you three cannot be together for more than five
minutes before there is turmoil and trouble??” And they were right. If we saw
that we were all playing peacefully together, one of us felt it was our sworn
and sacred duty to stir the pot and start a fight. Can you detect this in your
own family?
John Maxwell, the popular leadership guru, says every leader
carries two buckets: one filled with water and the other with gasoline. When he
or she sees a fire – a conflict or controversy – raging in the organization,
they have a choice to make. Will they use the water to put out the fire and be
a “firefighter,” or will they use the gasoline and cause the conflagration to
become bigger? When we were little kids, we loved to throw the gasoline (all
kids love to play with fire), never the water. Some people are peace-makers,
others are trouble-makers.
In the first reading today these two kinds of people exist
even in the nascent Church. You would think that all Christians would naturally
be peace-makers, wouldn’t you; but sadly, we’re not. In the Acts of the
Apostles, one group of Christian converts constantly caused conflict and
controversy. We read: “Some who were from Judea were instructing the brothers,
‘Unless you are circumcised according to Mosaic practice, you cannot be saved.
[And] there arose no little dissension and debate.” This group was called the
“Judaisers,” and they loved to stir the pot in the early Church, like me and my
brother and sister when were young. On the other hand, Paul and Barnabas,
wanted peace; they were throwing the water on the fires of conflict. In every
group or gathering, you find these two kinds of people: trouble-makers and
peace-makers, firefighters and fire-starters, apostles and agitators.
My friends, let me suggest three things you can do today to
be a peace-maker instead of a trouble-maker. First speak kindly about others,
and if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all. Sometimes, our
silence in such situations can speak volumes. The ancient proverb teachers,
“the pen is mightier than the sword,” and that means don’t underestimate the
power of your words, to do good and to cause harm. Weigh your words wisely;
“loose lips sink ships.” Secondly, try to see the issue from the other person’s
point of view. Most people are not crazy and usually have legitimate reasons
for what they think and do. Even if you disagree with someone, you can still
try to understand them. Just because Fr. Andrew Hart is a Cubs fan and I am a
Cardinals fan, doesn’t mean he’s crazy. Wait. Sorry, that’s a bad example.
Anyway, you get my point. And thirdly, pray for your persecutors, asking God to
bless them. Even if you cannot love someone, you can at least pray for them.
Just say one Hail Mary in the moment you feel like throwing the gasoline on
them and lighting a match. All peace-makers wield prayer as a powerful weapon.
Today, ask yourself: which kind of person am I: a
peace-maker or a trouble-maker, a firefighter or a fire-starter, an apostle or
an agitator. You have two buckets in your hands, which one will be empty at the
end of the day?
Praised be Jesus Christ!
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