Speaking softly in imitation of Jesus
04/10/2017
Isaiah 42:1-7 Here is my servant whom I uphold, my chosen
one with whom I am pleased, Upon whom I have put my Spirit; he shall bring
forth justice to the nations, Not crying out, not shouting, not making his
voice heard in the street. A bruised reed he shall not break, and a smoldering
wick he shall not quench, Until he establishes justice on the earth; the
coastlands will wait for his teaching.
President Theodore
Roosevelt popularized the phrase, “speak softly and carry a big stick.” That
phrase described his foreign policy, where he backed diplomacy with military
might. In fact, as a show of power (the big stick), he ordered the U.S. Navy to
circumnavigate the globe, so everyone could see how big “the big stick” really
was. The armada of ships was called the “Great White Fleet” because the hulls
of the ships were painted stark white. Roosevelt first used the phrase while he
was still governor of New York, stating in a letter: “I have always been fond
of the West African proverb, ‘Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go
far’.” In reality, however, there is no record of that phrase being used in
West Africa, and I even asked Fr. Pius, who is from West Africa, if he’s ever
used that phrase. And he hasn’t.
Although, on second thought, Fr. Pius does speak very softly…I better check
under his bed for a big stick.
I have
personally experienced how speaking softly works better than yelling. At Mass
sometimes babies cry, and a priest’s natural tendency is to raise his voice
over the baby’s crying. But have you noticed what happens? The baby only cries
louder. However, I’ve learned that if I
lower my voice instead as I pray, the baby tends to get quieter. And if that
doesn’t work, I will excommunicate the baby. Speak softly and carry a big
stick. They told us in the seminary that the most common confession is, “I
yelled at my kids.” Have you ever confessed that? We all wish we could speak
more softly.
In the first
reading today, Isaiah prophesies that this phrase will characterize the future
Christ. Isaiah writes: “He shall bring forth justice to the nations, not crying
out, not shouting, not making his voice heard in the street.” Indeed, as we
heard yesterday during the Passion reading, often Jesus said nothing in
response to Pilate and the Pharisees queries. And when one of his followers
used a sword to cut off someone’s ear, Jesus reprimanded him saying, “Do you
think that I cannot call upon my Father and he will not provide me at this
moment with more than twelve legions of angels?” That angelic armada would have made
Roosevelt’s Great White Fleet look like toy boats in a child’s bathtub. But
Jesus believed that speaking softly makes you more successful in fulfilling the
Father’s will.
May I
suggest three ways you, too, can employ the foreign policy of speaking softly
instead of using the big stick? Remember three words that start with the letter
“p,” namely, prayer, penance and patience. First, prayer. Pray for those you
feel like yelling at. I simply say one “Hail Mary” when someone gets under my
skin, and that prayer helps me to speak more softly to people. So, if you see
me stop and pray before talking to you, now you know why. Second, penance. Back
in the old days, Catholics were taught to “offer it up.” That is, we were
encouraged to offer our pains and problems to God on behalf of others. Penance
is a powerful kind of prayer, and you should offer that for those you would like
to yell at. After all, they probably need those graces more than you do. And
third, patience. We often get mad and shout when people don’t do what we want
right away. Hence the common confession, “I yelled at my kids.” But when you
speak softly, you plant seeds of goodness in people’s hearts and it takes time
to those seeds to sprout and bear fruit. Be patient: people are changing, but
just not as fast as you would like.
Put into
practice the three “p’s” of prayer, penance and patience and you, too, will
speak more softly. And you’ll rarely have to use the big stick, or have to
excommunicate any babies.
Praised be
Jesus Christ!
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