Learning from our enemies to be wise
Luke 21:5-11
While
some people were speaking about how the temple was adorned with costly stones
and votive offerings, Jesus said, “All that you see here–the days will come
when there will not be left a stone upon another stone that will not be thrown
down.” Then they asked him, “Teacher, when will this happen? And what sign will
there be when all these things are about to happen?” He answered, “See that you not be deceived,
for many will come in my name, saying, ‘I am he,’ and ‘The time has come.’ Do
not follow them!
Yesterday,
Mrs. Marsh sent an email announcing the up-coming debates. The topics of the
debates sounded intriguing, and when I saw which students were lined up on the
opposing sides, I wondered who’d win the debates. Let’s take an informal survey
and see what you think. One topic was entitled: “Cell phones should be allowed
in school,” a very vanilla subject that no one cares about (that’s called
sarcasm). Just listen to who’s on which side and then I’ll ask you to raise
your hands to vote on who will win the debate. On the affirmative side (meaning
they will argue cell phone should be allowed in school) are (please stand):
Seth Martin, Faith Rossi, Jayson Toney, and Abby Vargas. On the opposing side
(meaning they will argue that cell phone should not be allowed in school) are
(please stand): Reiter Ahlert, Tristan Do, Blaine Stites and Matt Stites. Now,
remember a debate is not a bar-room brawl, but about intelligence and insight;
it’s about brains not about brawn. Raise your hand if you think Seth, Faith,
Jayson and Abby will win. Now, raise your hands if you think Reiter, Tristan,
Blaine and Matt will win. I thought the same think, too.
Now, why do
we have debates at Trinity Junior High? Is it to confuse our students so they
don’t know what’s right and wrong? Is it to undermine the values their parents
teach at them at home and make them even more rebellious? Is it to teach our
students to reject authority and embrace anarchy? Is it to make you lose your
Catholic faith? No, of course not. Rather, it’s to teach you to think. And a
sign of a serious student is to know not only what YOU think, but also what
OTHERS think; and even to respect their opinion even as you disagree.
Unfortunately, the recent presidential debates demonstrated the exact opposite:
disagreement with great disrespect. The Buddhist say: “My enemy, my teacher.”
My enemy can teach me not only what they think but also help me to cherish more
my own opinions.
In the
gospel today, Jesus invites his apostles to learn the ways of their enemies, to
get inside their heads, like you do in a debate. He says: “See that you are not
deceived, for many will come in my name, saying, ‘I am he,’ and ‘The time has
come.’ Do not follow them!” In other works, do not blindly believe everything
that everyone says; do not be deceived. Rather, think critically and ask WHY
people say and act in a certain way; learn from your enemy. Your enemy may teach
you that “That guy is crazy, don’t follow him.” Or “She has a lot of hurt in
her heart, she’s just venting.” But first you must understand your enemy, you
must learn from him.
One of the
brightest brains in the Catholic Church was St. Thomas Aquinas (some think he
was the smartest ever). In his opus magnus called Summa Theologica (summary of
theology), he would list the top three opposing arguments before he stated his
own opinion. He basically said: “Here are all the reasons why I may be wrong,”
before he said why he was right. He gave the devil his due. That kind of
deference and respect made St. Thomas’ own opinions irresistible and
irrefutable.
Boys and
girls, in junior high school you’re beginning to form your own opinions and
ideas about the world, about people, and especially about yourself. The great
question that haunts you in your sleep: “Who am I??” But before you believe
what anyone says or reject them, listen and learn from them, especially if they
look like your enemy. Sometimes, your parents can look like an enemy, sometimes
Coach Meares and Coach Yarbrough look like your enemy, sometimes Dr. Hollenbeck
and Fr. John look like your enemies. Or, even the Catholic Church feels like a
foe. But before you turn your back on them, do what St. Thomas did: list the
three reasons you may be wrong and your enemy may be right. Let your enemy be
your teacher. If you can learn from your enemy, you’ll not only be very smart;
you’ll also be very wise.
Praised be
Jesus Christ!
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