Putting aside our differences when we share a meal
I, John, saw another angel coming down from
heaven, having great authority, and the earth became illumined by his splendor.
Then the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who have been called
to the wedding feast of the Lamb.”
I’ve been
pastor of Immaculate Conception for three full years now, and it should come as
no surprise to anyone that I love to come to your homes for supper. And the reason
I do that is so we can get to know each other, love each other, and help each
other love Jesus more. Moreover, I’m convinced that’s exactly what happens when
you share a meal with someone, in a word, “communion” happens. As the old adage
goes: “the fastest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” We touch each
other’s hearts, and Jesus touches our hearts. Now, one priest I know disagrees
with that dictum. He says: “the only plate that touches my heart is the
collection plate.”
To be completely
honest, I have not always been so successful at securing suppers like I am
today. I’ll never forget the first time I wanted to eat a supper with a
layperson. I was in eighth grade and had this huge crush on a pretty little
blonde girl. I called her and asked her if she’d like to grab something to eat
at Taco Bell. And her answer sounded a lot like Meghan Trainor’s new song, she
basically said, “My name is ‘No,’ my sign is ‘No,’ my number is ‘No.’ You need
to let it go, you need to let it go.” That’s exactly what she said. So, it’s
taken me many years to finally perfect this rare talent to go to lay people’s
homes for supper, and I’m pretty good at it now. But you see, sharing a supper
with someone is always an expression of love, and by the way, that’s exactly
why that little blonde girl said, “no.”
In the first
reading today, St. John says that the very last supper we will ever share –
because it’s the supper that lasts forever in heaven – will likewise be an
infinite expression of love. We read in Revelation: “Then the angel said to me”
– that is to St. John – “Write this: Blessed are those who have been called to
the wedding feast of the Lamb.” In other words, the end of time and the
business of eternity will be the celebration of a shared meal. But not the
sharing of any ordinary meal, but a “wedding feast,” the perfect love feast
between two people madly in love with each other. My favorite picture of any
wedding is where the bride and groom feed each other with a little bite of wedding
cake. Have you seen such pictures? That always gives me flashbacks to feeding
that little blonde girl a little bite of bean burrito. But notice John’s vision
is not just the wedding feast of two people, but also the wedding feast of the
Lamb, that is, the wedding feast of Jesus. In other words, the best shared
suppers always brings us closer to each other and closer to Christ.
Today our
country celebrates Thanksgiving Day. And what is the perennial and perfect sign
of this celebration? It is fireworks? No. Is it gifts wrapped under a tree? No.
Is it brightly colored eggs? No. Thanksgiving is symbolized by a shared meal as
an expression of love. Historians typically trace back the first Thanksgiving
to 1621, when a meal was shared between Pilgrims and Native Americans after
their first harvest. In attendance were 90 Native Americans and 53 Pilgrims.
When invited to that meal, no one said, “My name is ‘No’.” And because the
Pilgrims were also Puritans (meaning Calvinist Christians), they no doubt
invoked their Savior Jesus Christ in prayer. Meals always express love for each
other and for Jesus.
My friends,
as you sit down to your own Thanksgiving meals today, I pray you also feel true
and tender love for each other and for Jesus. Sometimes family gatherings can
be strained with tension and turmoil. Old wounds and un-buried hatchets come
out. Misunderstandings between in-laws and out-laws resurface. Divisions,
disagreements, divorces, and even deaths can cloud and rain on an otherwise
joyous occasion. But today, like the Native Americans dropped their tomahawks
and the Pilgrims put down their muzzle-loaders, so too may your families
forgive and forget any past problems, and sit down at the table to share your
love for each other and for Jesus.
And as you
trim the turkey today, try to look forward to that “last supper” that will last
forever in heaven. There, we will feed each other like a bride and groom give
each other wedding cake – or feed each other with bean burritos, as the case
may be – and there Jesus will feed us
with his love, at the “wedding feast of the Lamb.” At that Thanksgiving supper,
we will share Lamb with one another, and not turkey. And when you’re invited to that last supper,
don’t answer, “My name is ‘no’.”
Praised be
Jesus Christ!
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