Running to our mother in this Year of Mercy
Luke 15:1-3, 11-32
Jesus told this parable: “A man had two sons, and the
younger son said to his father, ‘Father give me the share of your estate that
should come to me.’ So the father divided the property between them. After a
few days, the younger son collected all his belongings and set off to a distant
country where he squandered his inheritance on a life of dissipation. When he
had freely spent everything, a severe famine struck that country, and he found
himself in dire need. Coming to his senses he thought, ‘I shall get up and go
to my father and I shall say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and
against you. I no longer deserve to be called your son; treat me as you would
treat one of your hired workers.”’ So he got up and went back to his father.
While he was still a long way off, his father caught sight of him, and was
filled with compassion. He ran to his son, embraced him and kissed him. His son
said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you; I no longer
deserve to be called your son.’ But his father ordered his servants, ‘Quickly
bring the finest robe and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals
on his feet. Take the fattened calf and slaughter it. Then let us celebrate
with a feast, because this son of mine was dead, and has come to life again; he
was lost, and has been found.’ Then the celebration began.
Archbishop
Fulton Sheen tells the story of when he was a small boy and had a toothache.
Have you ever had a toothache? They’re not very fun, are they? Well, the archbishop
said, “Whenever I had a toothache, I would always go to my grandmother, never
to my parents. My grandmother would put a little ointment on the tooth and make
the pain go away. My parents, on the other hand, would take me to the dentist,
and the dentist would poke and probe and pull and make the pain worse!” Does
that story sound familiar, maybe happening in your own family? If you had a
toothache, would you run to your mother or to your father? Most of us would
answer, “I would run to mom!” Why? Well, because most mothers are merciful and
tender and gentle. They just make the pain go away.
My absolute
favorite painting by the famous Dutch artist Rembrandt is titled, “The Return
of the Prodigal Son.” Have you seen it?
If you had, you’d never forget it.
It was completed in 1667, just two years before he died, and so in many
ways this embodied his crowning achievement. The painting captures the touching
scene when the younger son (the prodigal son) returns home to beg his father’s
forgiveness for wasting his wealth. In the painting, the son is kneeling in
front of his father, with his head buried in his bosom. The father’s hands are
on the son’s back and shoulder. But there’s something strangely symbolic in the
father’s two hands. His left hand is clearly a man’s hand: strong, firm and
authoritative. But his right hand is distinctively womanly: tender, soft,
gentle and caring. Why these different hands? Well, Rembrandt wanted the father
to depict God’s masculine but also feminine virtues: his justice but also his
mercy. And nothing means mercy like a mother’s hand. That’s why we look for a
mother’s hand when we suffer from a toothache.
Today’s
gospel is the great parable of mercy in Luke 15. This is the parable that
Rembrandt immortalized in paint and canvas 350 years ago. Now, even though the
point of the parable is mainly about mercy, there’s someone conspicuously
missing, namely, the mother. Where is the mother of this family? If you were
the prodigal son and you had to return home after how you had lived this
profligate life, would you run to the arms of your father or your mother? I
mean, the prodigal son’s problem and pain was a little worse than a toothache!
Well, this is where Rembrandt comes to the rescue. Through his masterpiece he
interprets this Scripture, and we see that the reaction of the father is both
fatherly and motherly, both just and merciful, because the father’s hands are
both masculine and feminine. In other words, the prodigal son’s father and
mother are present in the parable embodied in the fabulous figure of the
father, who is an earthly reflection of the heavenly Father. You see, the
prodigal son really ran into the arms of his father and mother; the mother was
not missing.
You’ve heard
by now that Pope Francis wants the Church to celebrate a Year of Mercy. What on
earth is that? Well, it’s not just something on earth, but also something in
purgatory. To put it simply, he wants us to take the place of the prodigal son
in Rembrandt’s painting and feel the love of those two hands on our shoulders,
especially the tender merciful hand of the mother. One way the pope wants us to
feel God’s motherly mercy is by granting Catholics a “plenary indulgence.” Now,
let me ask you, who indulges their children? Well, mostly mothers do, and
grandmothers really do. When you indulge someone you give them what they
desire, not what they deserve; you give them ice cream not broccoli.
Now, let me
be more specific. A plenary indulgence is like a “get out of jail free card,”
because it excuses us from the punishment we deserve for sins in purgatory. But
to obtain this plenary indulgence, you have to fulfill four conditions. First,
you must go to confession and be in the state of grace. If you don’t like to go
to confessions, you’re out of luck. You have to go to confession. Second, you
must receive Holy Communion, preferably within Mass. Third, you must pray for
Pope Francis – typically saying one Our Father and one Hail Mary for him
suffices. And fourth, you must make a pilgrimage to an official “Holy Door,”
which in Arkansas is located in Little Rock, at Our Lady of Good Counsel
Church. If you fulfill those four conditions – confession, Communion, prayer
for the pope and going through the Door – it will feel as if the pope has laid
his right hand – the hand of motherly mercy – and indulged you as all good
mothers and grandmothers do. This is why Catholics frequently refers to the
Church as “holy Mother Church,” because in her arms we find the marvelous mercy
of God. Mother Church makes the pain of
purgatory go away.
You know,
most people who behold Rembrandt’s masterpiece sit in front of it and try to
imagine what it felt like to be the prodigal son, with the father’s two hands
on their shoulders. In this Year of Mercy, however, you don’t have to imagine
that at all, you can actually experience it first hand (pun intended!). If you
fulfill the four conditions of the plenary indulgence, you can spiritually step
into Rembrandt’s priceless painting, and into Jesus’ parable, and enter the
warm embrace of the heavenly Father, and be wrapped in the mantle of God’s
motherly mercy. Why? Because whenever you have a toothache, you run to your
mother.
Praised be
Jesus Christ!
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