Seeing the covenant significance of the bride's price
06/23/2025
We wade across the center aisle
of church from the bride’s side to meditate on matters from the groom’s side.
Every groom feels he must pass a test to win the hand of his beloved; in point
of fact, he longs for the chance. The pop band the Proclaimers sang about this
chivalrous sentiment: “I would walk five hundred miles / And I would walk five
hundred more / Just to be the man who walked a thousand / Miles, to fall down
at your door.”
We find a more classic test of
love in Shakespeare’s play The Merchant of Venice. Various eligible bachelors
solicit fair Portia’s hand in marriage, but first they must pass the “the
casket test.” Portia’s deceased father has left detailed instructions that each
supposed suitor must select from three caskets. The test is devised to weed out
arrogant, selfish, or vain partners for Portia. You fathers really should read
more Shakespeare.
The first casket box is covered
in gold and bears the inscription: “Who chooseth me shall gain what many men
desire” (II, vii, 37). The implied question is: are you like “many men” or do
you have a unique strength of character? The second casket of silver states
cryptically: “Who chooseth me shall get as much as he deserves” (II, vii, 23).
That is, do you egotistically think you deserve the best, or assess yourself
more humbly?
The third casket is coated in
unattractive lead and reads: “Who chooseth me must give and hazard all he hath”
(II, vii, 16). Put practically, you must give everything and expect nothing in
return - who would choose that? Stop reading if you don’t want to know the test
results, but all suitors fail except humble and heroic Bassanio. Let us pause
to ponder why Bassanio believes lead best symbolizes love:
So may outward show be least
themselves, /
The world is still deceived with
ornament /
…
Therefore then, thou gaudy gold /
Hard food for Midas, I will none
of thee. /
Nor none of thee, [silver] thou
pale and common drudge /
‘Tween man and man. But thou,
thou meager lead, /
Which rather threaten’st than
does promise ought, /
Thy paleness moves me more than
eloquence, /
And here choose I. Joy be the
consequence! (III, ii, 75-76, 103-110).
Holding his breath Bassanio opens
the leaden casket relieved that Portia’s portrait smiles back. Bassanio
graduated from suitor to spouse.
What Shakespeare calls the casket
test, Scripture labels the bride’s price. We who live in modern Western culture
may not immediately grasp the significance of the bride’s price. Why not?
Because today it is the bride who pays the price to marry the man. Her family
forks over the funds to pay for the ceremony, music, photography, dress, the
venue, etc.
But in the Bible and the ancient
near east, the roles were reversed and the groom paid the bride’s price by some
heroic feat or personal sacrifice. Consider this extraordinary example: in 1
Samuel 18. King Saul says to David, “[T]he king desires no other the price for
the bride [my daughter Mical] than the foreskins of one hundred Philistines” (1
Sm 18:25).
That is, Saul wanted David to add
insult to injury by not only conquering the Philistines, but circumcising them.
Was David offended by such a request? Quite the contrary, we read two verses
later: “David arose and went with his men and slew two hundred Philistines” (1
Sm 18:27). Saul pressed David to walk 500 miles and David eagerly walked 1000
to prove his love for Mical.
Moreover, when the groom in the
Bible stands as covenant-mediator, he represents primarily God’s marital
interests and not merely his own. Now, is there any other suitor out there
seeking humanity’s hand in marriage besides God? As the Church Lady from
Saturday Night Live rhetorically reminded us: “Hmmm, could it be…Satan?!”
The bride’s price in salvation
history, thenceforth, consists of rescuing her from her Satanic suitor, and
returning her to God, her rightful Lover. But more often than not, the
unrepentant bride runs back into Satan’s arms. But don’t be too hard on Eve:
every time we sin, the modern bride of Christ backslides exactly like the
original biblical bride.
Pondering deeply this notion of
the bride’s price reveals another crucial aspect of the story of Scripture. How
often we hear the words “redemption” and “salvation," and immediately our
minds conjure up images of Jonathan Edwards surreal sermon, “Sinners in the
Hands of an Angry God”? We unreflectively think, “I want to be redeemed or
saved so that I don’t burn in hell for all eternity!”
And that infernal image is
certainly an accurate description of some aspects of redemption and salvation.
However, it does not exhaust its meaning, nor does it penetrate its true depths
which can only be found in the eternal Father’s heart. Rather every time you
hear the word “redemption” or “salvation” in the Bible, in the liturgy, or in
personal prayer, think of “the bride’s price.”
The bride’s price, then, helps us
catch the peculiar trajectory and plot twists of Scripture writ large from the
first pages of Genesis to the last verses of Revelation. Tragically such
insights escape us modern westerners because the roles of bride and groom are
reversed in who pays the price (the dowry) for the wedding. Indeed, it is hard
for Christians in our modern milieu to learn many of the lessons the Bible
tries to teach us.
Further, we should not forget
that each covenant-mediator remains a fallen man, and therefore also forms part
of the fickle bride. As such, he must overcome his own inner resistance –
remember concupiscence? – to God’s overtures of love. St. Augustine deftly
described this double duty, stating: “For you I am a bishop, with you I am a
Christian.” That solidarity with sinful humanity proves to be a fatal flaw in
every covenant-mediator, save the last, Jesus.
Like Portia’s suitors tempted by
the gold and silver caskets, the first five covenant-mediators – Adam, Noah,
Abraham, Moses, and David – admirably succeed in expanding the bride to her
proper proportions, but still finally fail to pay the bride’s price. Only the
sixth mediator, Jesus, the God-Man, pays the full price to redeem the bride by
paying “the pound of flesh”, that is, his human nature nailed to a tree.
Praised be Jesus
Christ!
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