Learning how to be a leaders at church and home
04/27/2026
John 10:11-18 Jesus
said: “I am the good shepherd. A good shepherd lays down his life for the
sheep. A hired man, who is not a shepherd and whose sheep are not his own, sees
a wolf coming and leaves the sheep and runs away, and the wolf catches and
scatters them. This is because he works for pay and has no concern for the
sheep. I am the good shepherd, and I know mine and mine know me, just as the
Father knows me and I know the Father; and I will lay down my life for the
sheep. I have other sheep that do not belong to this fold. These also I must
lead, and they will hear my voice, and there will be one flock, one shepherd.
This is why the Father loves me, because I lay down my life in order to take it
up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down on my own. I have power to
lay it down, and power to take it up again. This command I have received from
my Father.”
One of my favorite
authors on leadership is John Maxwell. Many years ago my brother introduced me
to him and suggested I read a book called “Developing the Leader Within You.”
John Maxwell has one simple definition of a leader. He writes: “Leadership can
be summarized in one word, ‘influence,’ namely, influencing people to follow
you.” Then he gives this humorous corollary: “If anyone thinks he’s a leader
and doesn’t have any followers, he’s just going for a walk.”
We can apply Maxwell’s
simple leadership principle to Jesus in today’s gospel. Is Jesus a good leader
who influences others to follow him? Oh yes. He’s not just going for a walk,
but as the Good Shepherd he leads his sheep into green pastures. And today we
learn he takes the final step of true leadership and lays down his life for his
sheep. Another catchy saying of Maxwell’s summarizes Jesus’ leadership style:
“A leader knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way.” Jesus is the ideal
leader because today he has over one billion followers.
I have learned after 30
years in the priesthood that leadership in the Catholic Church can be further
specified beyond simply influencing followers into 3 unique categories. That
is, Catholic leaders, specifically pastors, are called to be priests, prophets,
and kings. In the Old Testament these three offices were divided among
different people. The same person never presumed to be all 3, priest, prophet,
and king. When Jesus arrived, however, all three positions were rolled into
one, namely, into our Lord and Savior.
Jesus alone is the
perfect paradigm of a leader and fulfills the offices of priest, prophet, and
king par excellence. We human pastors, by contrast, can perform one or two
tasks well, but never all three. Have you noticed this about your pastors? I
don’t mean just here at I.C. but also the pastor of our diocese, as well as the
pastor of the universal church. We might call these three offices of leadership
a pastor’s report card. He might make an A in one or two subjects, but he will
invariably make a C or D in the third subject.
Now, what do these three
positions do so we can grade our
pastors accurately
according to the criteria of Catholic leadership? A priest is a leader who
introduces us to the sacred, especially in the sacraments. You have probably
noticed some pastors are very natural around the altar, at the baptismal font,
in the confessional, and at the hospital bed. Those pastors who help you feel
particularly close to Christ when they celebrate the sacraments would get an A
in the office of being a priest. Not jus the priests who say the fastest
Masses.
The second subject of a
pastor’s report card is being a prophet. Think of St. John the Baptist, the
greatest and last human prophet. A prophet, therefore, is the pastor who
preaches the hard truth, the unpopular truth, the truth that makes people
squirm in their seats and say, “I’m going to Mass somewhere else (like
Barling), where I hear what I want to hear.” A prophet pushes us out of our
comfort zones and silences our echo chambers so we can hear what Jesus has to
say on any given issue. Only an unpopular prophet earns an A on the pastor’s
report card.
And the third subject is
being a king which requires a host of skills of management, budgeting,
coordinating schedules, people skills, mentoring, casting a vision, planning
for the future, etc. By the way, this role of king is what they least prepare
us for in the seminary, and why most pastors tend to be poor administrators.
Can you think of any of your pastors who hated to be in the office and complete
the daily grind of office work and paperwork? Administration is not the sexy
part of being a pastor, but it is a third of his leadership role, and why most
Catholic pastors probably get poor marks.
This threefold
description of leadership – priest, prophet, and king – can be applied to all
leaders, including parents who must lead their families. Oh, now we’re talking.
Think about your mom and dad, or look at yourself in the mirror as a parent.
What kind of grades would your children give you first as a priest? Did you
introduce them to the sacred by family prayer and Sunday Mass, and reading the
Bible and family rosary? What grade would you get as a parent who must be a
priest to your family?
How about fulfilling your
role as a prophet to your family? Did you teach, preach, and push your children
to choose the hard road or did you let them follow the easy and wide road, the
path of least resistance? And how did you fare in being a king or queen and
administer your household, your domestic kingdom? Some parents neglect their
boring and banal domestic chores so they can do the more sexy stuff, like plan
parties, vacations, shopping sprees, etc. What grade would you get as a king or
queen?
Folks, leadership is not
just for a few people who run countries, companies, and churches. We are all
called to be leaders. And we should look to Jesus for the model of perfect
leadership and attempt to emulate him who alone is the flawless priest, prophet,
and king. We all fall short as leaders - no one fulfills all three offices
perfectly - so at this Mass as we come forward to receive Holy Communion may
the Good Shepherd help us to be better shepherds and improve our grades on our
report card.
Praised
be Jesus Christ!

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