Choosing
which traditions to keep and discard
12/23/2025
Luke
1:57-66 When
the time arrived for Elizabeth to have her child she gave birth to a son. Her
neighbors and relatives heard that the Lord had shown his great mercy toward
her, and they rejoiced with her. When they came on the eighth day to circumcise
the child, they were going to call him Zechariah after his father, but his
mother said in reply, “No. He will be called John.” But they answered her,
“There is no one among your relatives who has this name.” So they made signs,
asking his father what he wished him to
e called. He asked for a tablet and wrote, “John is his name,” and all
were amazed. Immediately his mouth was opened, his tongue freed, and he spoke
blessing God. Then fear came upon all their neighbors, and all these matters
were discussed throughout the hill country of Judea. All who heard these things
took them to heart, saying, “What, then, will this child be? For surely the
hand of the Lord was with him.”
My
Indian culture has a custom of naming babies that can be very confusing, but
it’s also kind of cool. We recycle names every two generations. For example,
the first-born son is named for his grandfather on his father’s side. The first
born-daughter is named for her grandmother on her father's side. The
second-born son is named for his grandfather on his mother’s side. And the
second-born daughter is named for her grandmother on her mother’s side. Do you
see the pattern?
So,
let me ask you: since I am the second-born son, who am I named after? You
guessed it: I share my maternal grandfather’s name, “Yohannan.” And if a family
has more than two boys and two girls, those additional children are given up
for adoption. Just kidding, I really don’t know how they are named. But the
basic pattern recycles names every two generations. And I feel a special bond
with my mom’s dad, even though I never knew him.
The
Jewish culture of the 1st century must have had a similar tradition of
recycling family names. In fact, the footnote in the USCCB online Bible for Lk
1:59 reads: “The practice of Palestinian Judaism at this time was to name a
child at birth…the usual practice was to name the child after the grandfather.”
So Malayalees and Middle Easterners share recycling names in common. But
Zachariah and Elizabeth break with that Jewish tradition to indicate that
something new was dawning.
You
see, traditions can serve two purposes. When we follow timeless traditions, we
stay firmly rooted in our past, like how I feel a closeness to my maternal
grandfather “Yohannan.” But some traditions are made to be broken to usher in a
new reality, as in the case of John the Baptist. He would not only usher in
Jesus, but a whole “new creation” (2 Cor 5:17), indeed, “a new heavens and a
new earth” (Rv. 21:1). In other words, recycling names is sometimes replaced by
a revolution.
When
my family emigrated to the United States in 1976, we had to make many changes
to adapt to our new home. One of those modifications was how we name babies.
Obviously, I don’t have any offspring, but my brother and sister have married
and used various methodologies to name their children. But rarely did they
recycle name like we do in India. So they came up with Noah, Isaac, Sophia,
Isabella, Raichel, Luke, Jacob, Adam, and Rebecca, my nieces and nephews.
I
sometimes wonder if all the changes in culture and tradition that immigrants to
the United States make is not also part-and-parcel of the “American
Revolution.” What do I mean? Well, the “revolution” was not only a struggle for
the Founding Fathers in 1776; it is relived by more recent founding fathers and
mothers arriving on these shores today. But their real challenge is knowing
which traditions to keep and which ones to jettison. In other words, how do you
not throw the baby out with the bathwater?
Yesterday,
I had the funeral Mass for Charlie Kleck. Charlie was born in Morrison Bluff to
devout Catholic parents. How do I know they were devout Catholics? Charlie was
one of 9 children. Charlie attended Subiaco Academy and remained a practicing
Catholic for 93 years. Charlie Kleck was part of a generation of Catholic
Americans who decided their Catholic faith was one tradition of their ancestors
they would keep, even as they changed others.
But
can we say the same for the current generation of Catholics? I went to St.
Theresa’s Catholic School in southwest Little Rock and graduated from 8th grade
in 1983. By the way, my class was filled with German Catholics: Becks, Ekmans,
Gangluffs, Moix, Kordsmeiers, etc. Sadly, only a handful of my Cougar
classmates are still practicing Catholics. And I don’t think that trend is
uncommon for Gen Xers like me and my friends. That is, our own American
revolution meant we threw the baby out with the bathwater, and tragically that
was the Baby Jesus.
When
Elizabeth and Zachariah decided not to recycle names for their baby and name
him John, they were not just trying to pick a cute baby name. They were
sparking a revolution no less dramatic than when John Hancock penned his
signature at the bottom of the Declaration of Independence. But like with every
revolution, the hard part is knowing what part of the past to keep and what to
throw away. Some revolutions might throw the baby out with the bathwater.
Praised be Jesus Christ!

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