Using terms of endearment for those we love
11/09/2021
1 Cor 3:9c-11, 16-17 Brothers
and sisters: You are God’s building. According to the grace of God given to me,
like a wise master builder I laid a foundation, and another is building upon
it. But each one must be careful how he builds upon it, for no one can lay a
foundation other than the one that is there, namely, Jesus Christ. Do you not
know that you are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?
If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy that person; for the temple
of God, which you are, is holy.
People love to use terms of
endearment when they talk about people they love. For example, two people who
are very much in love may simply call each other “my love.” You may have heard
people call their loved ones “sweetheart,” or “honey,” or “sugar.” In Spanish
the terms of endearment are even stronger and sometimes even spiritual. For
instance, someone might say, “mi cielo,” meaning “my heaven,” or “mi corazon,”
which means “my heart.”
Surprisingly, in Spanish parents
sometimes address children as “mommy” and “poppy.” Since I have started playing
tennis, I have also gotten a nickname, “headless chicken,” as in “he’s running
around like a chicken with his head cut off.” I am not sure if that term is
endearing or insulting, but it does accurately describe how I play tennis.
In the scriptures today for the
Dedication of the Lateran Basilica in Rome, we hear people referred to as “the
temple of God.” We might think that is a term of endearment, but it isn't. For
example, in 1 Co 3:16, St. Paul talks to the Corinthians affectionately saying:
“Do you not know that you are the temple of God and the Spirit of God dwells in
you?” Even though St. Paul speaks with great love for the Corinthians, he was
not using a typical “term of endearment.” Why not?
Well, because terms of endearment
only catch the corners of our character, not our essence, not our soul and
center. When St. Paul tells the Corinthian Christians they are “temples,” he is
not using a metaphor or analogy, a term of endearment, but rather uncovering
their deepest identity. They are truly and really temples of God, because the
Spirit dwells in them. We see this deep truth again when Jesus says in Jn 2:19,
“Destroy this temple and in three days I will raise it up.” He was speaking
about his body that would be raised up in three days after its destruction on
the Cross.
In other words, Jesus’ Body is the
Temple of God, par excellence, because the Holy Spirit dwells in him. By
comparison to Christ, the great Jerusalem Temple was merely a metaphor and
analogy. That is, the phrase, “temple of God” would have been a term of
endearment to mean the Jerusalem Temple. In the same way, Christians, who are
other Christs, are truly “temples of God,” and by comparison our earthly church
buildings, magnificent as they are, remain merely metaphorically temples.
One of the great blessings of being
the pastor of Immaculate Conception Church is celebrating the sacraments inside
this beautiful building. Last Saturday I heard confessions in our confessional
boxes, Sunday I baptized Vivian Jane Meares at the baptismal font, each day we
gather around the altar for the Eucharist, and on Friday we will have the
funeral Mass of Mary Lynn Lawler. There is little doubt that the Spirit of God
dwells inside these four walls, especially whenever the sacraments are
celebrated.
But do you know where the Holy
Spirit seeks to reside even more than inside this great temple? You guessed it:
inside the true temple that is you and me. And that is something we have to
strive to see because we can easily miss the true temples that are Christians.
When we hear babies crying, when we hear cell phones going off, when we see
people arriving late to Mass and see others leaving early after Communion, when
we see toddlers running around church like chickens with their heads cut off,
we must recall St. Paul’s words to the Corinthians, “Do you not know that you
are the temple of God.”
And do not forget Jesus’ words,
“Destroy this temple and in three days I will raise it up.” Both the Apostle and
his Master meant that the true temples are individual Christians, and the
material buildings, by contrast, are only temples metaphorically and
secondarily. Someday, this magnificent church will be but dust and ashes, but
all the little headless chickens will be raised in glory.
Praised be Jesus
Christ!
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