Setting out on the high seas of spousal love
06/20/2025
As we embark on this second voyage
of the Theology of the Body through the seas of Sacred Scripture and spousal
love, we should define the scope of our journey. Do you remember the scope of
the U.S.S. Minnow’s misadventures on Gilligan’s Island?
Just sit right back and you’ll hear
a tale
A tale of a fateful trip
That started from this tropic port
Aboard this tiny ship
The mate was a mighty sailin’ man
The skipper brave and sure
Five passengers set sail that day
For a three hour tour, a three hour
tour.
Our skipper is John Paul II, and I
will be your “mighty sailin’ man” the first mate. And we will soon discover how
choppy the seas of Scripture become as they recount the love story between God
and man, specifically, God’s covenant faithfulness and man’s covenant failures.
Smooth sailing doesn’t last long for spouses, about five minutes after they get
home from the honeymoon.
So, here is our scope: we will
narrow our attention to only two distinctive features of the six
covenant/marriages of the Bible. First, we will explore how each successive
covenant/marriage expands to include all humanity.
And second we will consider how
each covenant mediator – Adam, Noah, Abraham, Moses, David, and finally Jesus –
faces a test to prove his love and win the bride. That is, we will look at
covenant/marriage first through the eyes of the bride, that is, humanity, and
second from the vantage of the Bridegroom, namely, God, represented by each
covenant-mediator.
First, a little full disclosure. I
will steal most of my material on covenant/marriages from Scott Hahn’s book
"A Father Who Keeps His Promises." Hahn provides this helpful
overview, a map to plot our course:
As you study Scripture, you’ll see
how covenant laws [the requirements to marry God] are not arbitrary
stipulations but fixed moral principles which govern the moral order. Moreover,
they reflect the inner life of the Blessed Trinity. In short, “covenant” is
what God does because “covenant” is what God is (29).
That is, this 3-hour tour is not some
sight-seeing joyride to the Bahamas, but a journey to the heart of God, which
Hebrews describes as “an all-consuming fire.” Or as St. Augustine memorably put
it: “To fall in love with God is the greatest romance; to seek him the greatest
adventure; to find him the greatest human achievement.” And the good news is
that God is chasing us even more than we are seeking him.
First, let’s consider
covenant/marriage from the bride’s point of view, humanity as God’s beloved.
When we survey the covenant/marriage landscape of the Bible, it becomes quickly
apparent how each successive covenant grows and expands. For example, God’s
first covenant was forged with a married couple, Adam and Eve. Only two people
were betrothed to each other and to God.
God’s second covenant was
established with Noah and his family (3 sons, their wives, and their children).
The covenant package had become family-size. The third covenant with Abraham
grew to tribal proportions embracing everyone in the patriarch’s household, or
as we say today, all of Abraham’s “kith and kin”, both blood and non-blood
relations.
God fashions a fourth and far
grander covenant with Moses. Now an entire nation gathers at the foot of Mt.
Sinai, and swears covenant fidelity to God through the mediation of Moses. And
for his last Old Testament covenant, God works through King David, “a man after
God’s own heart” (1 Sm 13:14) to rule over a kingdom.
Scott Hahn explains how a kingdom,
unlike a nation, is virtually unlimited in size:
As covenant mediator, King David…gradually
transformed the national family of Israel [under Moses] to…a dynastic kingdom.
The difference [between kingdom and nation] is subtle but crucial. A nation
maintains sole sovereignty, whereas a kingdom exercises sovereignty over other
states and nations (214).
In other words, finally under
David, the bride reaches her proper proportions, that is, the People of God is
truly “catholic” a Greek word meaning “present everywhere.”
And lastly, Jesus, the only perfect
covenant-mediator, because he is the God-Man, will build on this “catholic
conception” of his Bride by commanding his disciples to complete what King
David began: “Go, therefore, and make disciples of all the nations baptizing
them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit” (Mt
28:19).
Can you see the concentric circles
of God’s covenant plan laid out throughout Scripture? Or, as we gush and sing
at weddings, “Here comes the bride, all dressed in white…” That white wedding
gown bespeaks not only betrothal but also Baptism, which incorporates us into
the Church, the Bride of Christ.
Perhaps a more dramatic way to
appreciate the depths of God’s covenant love for humanity is when the north
winds blow and the waves crash over the bow submerging the ship of spousal
love. Again and again, the prophets used the metaphor of adultery to identify
Israel’s covenant/marriage infidelities in their religious observances with
God.
John Paul highlights how the
prophets treated idolatry (worshiping alien gods) synonymously with adultery
(having other lovers):
While Isaiah emphasizes in his
texts above all the love of Yahweh, the Bridegroom, who in all circumstances
goes to meet the Bride, overlooking all her infidelities. Hosea and Ezekiel
abound in comparisons that show above all the ugliness and moral evil of the
adultery [idolatry] committed by the Bride, Israel (274).
Ironically, it is exactly Israel’s
infidelities that underscore emphatically God’s covenant faithfulness. Or think
about it this way: what husband or wife today would stay in a marriage when
their spouse commits adultery? Well, that unconditional, unheard-of, devotion
is how the prophets described God’s love for his Bride.
Therefore, both positively and
negatively, we see how God perfects and purifies his people for an eternal
covenant/marriage to him. Again, Scott Hahn states it succinctly:
From a sinful, shameful couple cast
out of paradise, to God’s glorious redeemed world-wide family of saints at home
forever in heaven – that miraculous transformation is the covenant story of the
Scripture…From the beginning the Father planned that Adam and Eve would be the
first members of a world-wide family circle, swept up into the eternal love of
the Trinity” (36).
“Just sit right back and you’ll
hear a tale, a tale of the fateful trip…”
Praised be Jesus
Christ!
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