Admiration and Affection for Mother Mary
05/24/2021
John 19:25-34 Standing by the
cross of Jesus were his mother and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of
Clopas, and Mary of Magdala. When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple there
whom he loved, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son.” Then he said
to the disciple, “Behold, your mother.” And from that hour the disciple took
her into his home. After this, aware that everything was now finished, in order
that the Scripture might be fulfilled, Jesus said, “I thirst.” There was a
vessel filled with common wine. So they put a sponge soaked in wine on a sprig
of hyssop and put it up to his mouth. When Jesus had taken the wine, he said,
“It is finished.” And bowing his head, he handed over the spirit.
I love to admit this, but I am a
proud momma’s boy. Yes, I love to admit it. Yesterday during my 25th ordination
anniversary, my mom and dad were able to come from Little Rock for the 10 a.m.
Mass and reception. I think my mom was more happy and honored than me by the
outpouring of love everyone showed me. When I was sick with the Covid-19 virus,
the one person I wished was at my bedside was my mom, who, by the way, is a
registered nurse as well. So, my mom can use her head and her heart to heal me.
I am convinced that “umbilical cord” that sustained me for 9 months inside my
mother’s womb was still supplying life and love to me today, but now that
umbilical cord is invisible. And I don’t want to cut it.
Apparently, Pope Francis is a proud
momma’s boy, too. How so? He wants the Church to show the same affection and
admiration that we pour out on our natural mothers to be lavished on our
supernatural mother, the Blessed Virgin Mary. In 2018, he decreed that the
Monday after Pentecost – also called Whit Monday symbolizing the white garments
of those baptized on Pentecost – as the memorial of Mary the Mother of the
Church. In other words, the Holy Father wants us to understand there is an
invisible umbilical cord connecting us to our Holy Mother, Mary.
She shares in our sorrows and
successes, in our hopes and our happiness every bit as much as my mom loved my
anniversary celebration yesterday and prayed for me while I was sick. The
invisible umbilical cord underscores a connection between mother and child that
cannot be cut, even if the physical umbilical cord is cut after birth. In other
words, all Catholics, indeed all Christians, should be proud momma’s boys and
proud momma’s girls. That is the point of the pope in making this new memorial.
The scriptures shows us we are only
following in the footsteps of Jesus and apostles when we lavish love on our
Lady. While Jesus suffered his final agony on the Cross, he must have been
greatly consoled to see his Mother Mary at the foot of the Cross, like I would
have been to see my mother at the foot of my bed. And she must have hurt in her
heart almost as much as Jesus suffered in his flesh, as Simeon had prophesied
in Lk 2:35 that a sword would pierce her heart.
And in Acts 2 the apostles are
gathered in the upper room around Mary in the middle, who was encouraging them
as her sons. Jesus said from the cross: “Behold your mother,” and that is what
the apostles were doing in the upper room. As he hung on the Cross, Christ
created that invisible umbilical cord connecting Mary not only to him but to
every Christian, to you and to me. Jesus, too, we might say, was a proud
momma’s boy.
My favorite Marian devotion is the
Holy Rosary. I try to pray it daily, and sometimes I have to divide it up over
the course of the day to complete it. I suggest that to people as a profound
scriptural and spiritual prayer, meditating on the life of Mary and Jesus. As
she was present in every moment of Jesus’ earthly life, so she wants to be present
in all our important and even unimportant moments. Moms love everything their
children do, and nothing seems silly or superficial to a mother.
I find great comfort, peace, joy
and strength when I pray the rosary, and I think other people will, too. Why?
Ultimately, I look at the rosary like a visible symbol of that invisible
umbilical cord connecting me to my spiritual mother, Mary. When I pray the
rosary, I fulfill the Lord’s command from the Cross: “Behold your mother.” In
other words, our Lord is saying, look at her and love her like I do.
Jeff Meares is a coach at Trinity
Junior High. He loves to greet the students every morning when their parents –
usually their mothers – drop them off. As the sleepy students are getting out
of their cars, Jeff smiles and waves and tell them: “Turn around and tell your
mother you love her.” The student sometimes begrudgingly blurts out: “I love
you, mom.” Jeff is saying the same thing as Pope Francis and Jesus, “Behold
your mother.” There is an invisible umbilical cord that connects us to our
mothers – to our natural mothers and to our spiritual mother, Mary. Don’t cut
the cord.
Praised be Jesus
Christ!